My name is Clint and I feel in marriage the sexual relationship should be led by the wife.
Song of Solomon (the only bible book on romance and sex) seems to indicate she invites and leads and he respo... View MoreMy name is Clint and I feel in marriage the sexual relationship should be led by the wife.
Song of Solomon (the only bible book on romance and sex) seems to indicate she invites and leads and he responds and compliments.
Looking beyond the bible for reasons it’s obvious the woman’s drive is highly subjective on her cycle, on how she feels about her body, stress level, etc. But the man is capable of physical intimacy at tge drop of a hat.
This is reversed from what traditionally is believed in Christian circles. And in our experience it’s worked wonderfully well once we implemented it. It took some time for my wife to adjust and grow confident in asking and directing what she wants and when (she knows what I want) but now that she has we are both happier and we both feel far more appreciated and loved.
Ladies be open about what you want in romantic ways. Men need to back off in the bedroom and step up and lead in everything else and you’ll see a different side of your wife.
Begging, asking, pestering only turns her off.
Compliments, deferring to her sexual moods, and leading in everything else turns her on…
Depending on where she is in her cycle, stress level, and many other factors.
How does this work in homesteads
Well strong marriages mean much stronger homesteads..
If your bedroom is dead it’s probably cuz tge man pestered it to death. Or the woman’s expectations are unrealistiy high due to watching Hollywoods version of romance, or both.
I hope this helps some couples to reexamine the dynamics in their relationships or maybe help young ppl set expectations going into marriage.
No one talks in tge church about what actually is said in scripture so it’s usually just guesswork.
It’s odd tge WHOLE of Song of Solomon is basically ignored so no one in the church actually knows what the H they are doing in marriage.
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⬆️ ppl are being arrested and ai is now using flock cameras. And they make terrible mistakes
We planted a summer crisp pear
North Star cherry
And the Stanley purple-blue plum
We planted them on little hills. I mixed a well decomposed chicken run soil a mix of decomposed hardwood sawdust, chi... View MoreWe planted a summer crisp pear
North Star cherry
And the Stanley purple-blue plum
We planted them on little hills. I mixed a well decomposed chicken run soil a mix of decomposed hardwood sawdust, chicken manure and table waste, into the clay back fill for under and around the plantings then well watered.
Take pride in the God that has promised not to flood the world again to destroy the degenerates.
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