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Chad Wilkinson survived 21 years as a Navy SEAL. What finally took him was a war nobody could see happening.His father was a SEAL. His uncle was a SEAL.Becoming one was the only plan he ever had.He left college early to enlist.He graduated BUD/S in 1996, one of the hardest training pipelines in the U.S. military.He served on SEAL Team 8. Then SEAL Team 6.He earned a Silver Star. A Bronze Star with Valor. A stack of commendations most operators never come close to matching.Colleagues called him the tip of the spear.Behind the medals, his body had absorbed years of blast waves from breaching charges and explosions, injury after injury that left no visible scar.Doctors would later call it repeated traumatic brain injury.His wife, Sara, always understood the danger of his job. She'd braced herself for the possibility of losing him overseas.She never braced for this.In 2018, after 21 years of service, Chad Wilkinson died by his own hand, one more casualty of PTSD and the invisible damage his brain had carried home from war after war."I don't think there's any way I could ever experience a shock like that again," Sara said.Fellow SEALs told her the same thing, over and over: if this could happen to Chad, it could happen to any of them.Sara has spent the years since sharing his story anyway, choosing honesty over silence, calling it living big in his memory.A man who survived some of the most dangerous missions in modern warfare came home from all of them.It was the war inside his own head that he couldn't out-fight.