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Honestly ladies there is nothing wrong with being average and being a mid. Womanhood and our value has become so tied into how beautiful we are that we base most of our value on looks. This interesting thing has happened in a lot of women’s lives, we have believed the lie that average is somehow bad. Average job, average marriage, average husband, average house, average car = bad. None of this is true. Vast majority of us will be average. Vast majority of us grew up in average homes, and yet had many wonderful memories, of our parents our homes and lives. The pursuit for the 1% is what keeps you miserable. Most will never achieve it, to think that is the only place where true joy and happiness happens is just a lie. I’m an average woman, in an average American home, making an average income and there is so much joy and happiness in this average home, on the average Friday night making pancakes for my children while they play, in a warm safe house and country. Average is a wonderful place to be. Don’t let the hyper-focus on the extremes make you lose sight of the wonderful life that happens in the middle. Embrace the average.