THE OLD TESTAMENT MARRIAGES WE WOULD RATHER NOT TALK ABOUT
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
They loved, betrayed, waited, manipulated, endured, failed, forgave, and sometimes shattered one another—and bu... View MoreTHE OLD TESTAMENT MARRIAGES WE WOULD RATHER NOT TALK ABOUT
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
They loved, betrayed, waited, manipulated, endured, failed, forgave, and sometimes shattered one another—and buried inside their complicated marriages is a warning modern Christians desperately need before we confuse what the Bible records with what God approves.
Somewhere tonight, a husband and wife will lie inches apart in the same bed and feel miles away from each other.
Someone will stare at a wedding photograph and wonder where those two smiling people went.
Someone will discover a message that was never supposed to be discovered.
Someone will whisper, “I forgive you,” while wondering whether trust can ever breathe again.
Someone else will remain in a relationship where the word “submission” has been weaponized against them, and they have been made to believe that enduring cruelty without seeking help is somehow holiness.
And somewhere, a single Christian will read another beautiful marriage testimony online and quietly ask God, “Why hasn’t that happened for me?”
Then we open the Old Testament.
And surprisingly, we do not find a collection of spotless marriages posing for religious photographs.
We find Adam blaming Eve.
Abraham and Sarah carrying promises from God while also carrying fear, impatience, cultural pressures, and the devastating consequences surrounding Hagar.
We find Isaac and Rebekah beginning with tenderness but eventually inhabiting a household fractured by favoritism and deception.
We find Jacob loving Rachel, Leah aching to be loved, two sisters trapped inside a family structure filled with rivalry, jealousy, children, servants, bargaining, and heartbreak.
We find David accumulating wives while his household slowly becomes a place of sexual sin, violence, rivalry, grief, and bloodshed.
We find Solomon—the king famous for wisdom—allowing his many marriages to become part of his spiritual downfall.
This is where some readers make a dangerous mistake.
They assume that because something happened in the Bible, God must have approved of it.
He did not.
The Bible is sometimes brutally honest precisely because God refuses to edit human sin out of the story.
Scripture is not embarrassed by broken people.
It exposes them.
And perhaps that is one reason these ancient marriages still feel disturbingly modern.
Because underneath the tents, livestock, royal palaces, arranged unions, inheritance customs, and ancient Near Eastern social structures were human hearts.
Hearts like ours.
Hearts that wanted to be chosen.
Hearts terrified of rejection.
Hearts capable of extraordinary faithfulness and astonishing selfishness.
Hearts that could love someone in the morning and wound them before nightfall.
And if we read these marriages carefully—not merely asking, “What did these people do?” but, “What does the whole counsel of Scripture reveal about what God intended?”—something extraordinary begins to emerge.
The first marriage appears before sin enters the human story.
Before adultery.
Before divorce.
Before jealousy.
Before polygamy.
Before domestic manipulation.
Before husbands and wives learned how to hide from each other.
Genesis takes us back to the beginning.
After God creates the woman and brings her to the man, Adam responds with words of recognition and belonging:
“Bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh.”
Then Genesis 2:24 gives the foundational pattern:
עַל־כֵּן יַעֲזָב־אִישׁ אֶת־אָבִיו וְאֶת־אִמּוֹ וְדָבַק בְּאִשְׁתּוֹ וְהָיוּ לְבָשָׂר אֶחָד
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
The Hebrew is worth slowing down for.
The verb דָּבַק — dabaq — carries the sense of clinging, holding fast, remaining closely joined.
And then comes:
בָּשָׂר אֶחָד — basar echad.
“One flesh.”
Marriage in the biblical vision is not merely two people sharing an address, a surname, expenses, children, or physical intimacy.
It is covenantal union.
That does not mean spouses cease to be individual persons. It means marriage creates a profound relational union characterized by faithfulness, belonging, and covenant commitment.
And notice something important.
Genesis gives us this pattern before the Bible gives us the disasters.
That matters.
Because when later generations multiply wives, practice favoritism, commit adultery, exploit power, deceive one another, or fracture their households, those stories must be read against God’s creational design—not used to rewrite it.
Consider Abraham and Sarah.
Their story contains magnificent faith.
It also contains fear.
God had promised Abraham descendants, yet the waiting became unbearable.
Genesis 16 records Sarah giving Hagar to Abraham according to a practice understandable within their ancient cultural world.
But culturally understandable does not mean spiritually ideal.
Human beings have always been tempted to “help” God fulfill promises on our timetable.
That temptation did not die with Abraham.
Modern Christians do it too.
We pray.
We wait.
Nothing changes.
Then anxiety begins preaching.
“God is taking too long.”
“You need to fix this yourself.”
“You cannot trust Him with this.”
“Take control.”
And sometimes the greatest damage in a marriage does not begin with hatred.
It begins with fear.
Fear of never having children.
Fear of losing financial security.
Fear that our spouse will leave.
Fear that we married the wrong person.
Fear that God has forgotten us.
Fear makes terrible decisions look reasonable.
Abraham and Sarah teach us that a marriage can belong to people of genuine faith and still contain moments of catastrophic human weakness.
That should humble every Christian couple.
Being believers does not make us incapable of damaging each other.
We still need repentance.
We still need wisdom.
We still need accountability.
We still need grace.
Then there is Isaac and Rebekah.
Their early story contains one of Scripture’s tender descriptions: Isaac loved Rebekah.
But years later their family became divided.
Isaac favored Esau.
Rebekah favored Jacob.
Favoritism became fertile soil for secrecy.
Secrecy produced manipulation.
Manipulation deepened division.
Eventually a son fled from home.
How many modern families understand that pattern?
Not necessarily because one parent literally chooses one child over another, but because alliances begin forming inside the home.
Mom tells the daughter what she refuses to tell Dad.
Dad makes the son his emotional confidant against Mom.
One parent becomes “the good one.”
The other becomes “the problem.”
Children learn how to navigate the tension.
Soon the family is technically together while emotionally divided into teams.
The house still stands.
But covenant intimacy is bleeding behind the walls.
Then Jacob enters one of the saddest marriage stories in Genesis.
He loves Rachel.
But through Laban’s deception, he first receives Leah.
Eventually the household expands into a painful web involving Rachel, Leah, Bilhah, and Zilpah.
Read those chapters slowly and you will hear something deeper than ancient genealogy.
You will hear a woman desperate to be loved.
After Leah bears Reuben, Genesis 29:32 records her hope that perhaps now her husband will love her.
Then another son.
Then another.
There is something almost unbearable about watching a human being try to earn affection through performance.
Maybe now he will love me.
Maybe now she will respect me.
Maybe if I earn more.
Maybe if I lose weight.
Maybe if I become more agreeable.
Maybe if I never complain.
Maybe if I give him sex whenever he wants it.
Maybe if I become more spiritual.
Maybe if I serve harder.
Maybe if I stop needing anything.
Maybe then I will finally be enough.
But marriage was never designed to answer the deepest question of human worth.
Your spouse cannot carry the weight of being your savior.
Only Christ can.
That does not excuse emotional neglect. Husbands and wives are commanded to love faithfully. But if your entire identity depends upon another fallen human being constantly proving your worth, even a loving marriage will eventually collapse beneath expectations it was never created to bear.
And this is where the Gospel begins reaching into places marriage advice cannot reach.
Because Christianity does not ultimately say, “Find the perfect person who will finally make you whole.”
It says that reconciliation with God comes through Jesus Christ.
Before you are somebody’s husband or wife…
before you are single, divorced, widowed, rejected, betrayed, desired, unwanted, happily married, or barely holding your marriage together…
your deepest problem is sin, and your deepest need is Christ.
That changes how we read David.
David is one of Scripture’s most sobering warnings against romanticizing biblical heroes.
He was Israel’s celebrated king.
He was also capable of horrific sexual and moral failure.
Second Samuel 11 records his taking Bathsheba and arranging the death of her husband Uriah.
Whatever sentimental versions of the story modern culture sometimes creates, the biblical narrative is dark.
David possessed royal power.
Uriah died because David abused it.
Then Nathan confronted him.
“You are the man.”
David’s response in 2 Samuel 12:13 is painfully brief:
“I have sinned against the LORD.”
Psalm 51 opens a window into the repentance associated with David’s sin:
לֵב טָהוֹר בְּרָא־לִי אֱלֹהִים
Lev tahor bera-li Elohim.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
Notice what repentance does not sound like.
“I was lonely.”
“My marriage wasn’t meeting my needs.”
“She understood me.”
“He made me feel alive again.”
“We never meant for anyone to get hurt.”
“God knows my heart.”
Repentance stops editing the confession.
“I have sinned.”
That sentence can become the doorway through which grace enters a dying marriage.
Not because consequences magically disappear.
David was forgiven, but his actions still produced terrible consequences.
Biblical grace is not God pretending sin did not matter.
Grace is costly.
And nowhere do we see its cost more clearly than at the cross.
But before we arrive there, Solomon gives us another warning.
First Kings 11 says Solomon loved many foreign women and accumulated hundreds of wives and concubines. The text specifically explains that his wives turned his heart after other gods.
The central issue in the biblical warning is covenant unfaithfulness and idolatry.
This matters when Christians discuss Old Testament restrictions concerning intermarriage. The biblical concern cannot responsibly be reduced to modern racial categories. Scripture’s theological concern was Israel’s covenant loyalty to the LORD and the danger of being drawn into idolatry.
Solomon had wisdom.
But possessing wisdom is not the same as obeying wisdom.
That should frighten anyone who knows enough Bible to become proud.
You can know Hebrew words.
You can quote theology.
You can teach Sunday school.
You can preach.
You can post Scripture every morning.
You can have thousands of followers who believe you are spiritually mature.
And still neglect your spouse.
Still entertain secret conversations.
Still feed pornography.
Still manipulate.
Still flirt.
Still nurture resentment.
Still become spiritually cold.
Still construct a private life completely different from your public Christianity.
Knowledge cannot substitute for obedience.
And neither can religious reputation.
Then the Old Testament gives marriage language an even greater theological depth.
Malachi 2:14 describes the wife as:
אֵשֶׁת בְּרִיתֶךָ
eshet beritekha—
“the wife of your covenant.”
There is the word:
בְּרִית — berit.
Covenant.
That changes everything.
Biblical marriage is more than a prolonged romantic mood.
Feelings matter enormously.
Affection matters.
Desire matters.
Tenderness matters.
Friendship matters.
But covenant says, “My faithfulness is not supposed to disappear every time my emotions change.”
This does not mean Scripture commands someone to silently remain in immediate danger or conceal abuse.
It never gives an abuser divine permission to terrorize a spouse.
Christian teachings about headship, submission, forgiveness, reconciliation, or covenant must never be twisted into weapons for coercion, violence, sexual abuse, threats, or control.
If you are in immediate danger, getting to safety and seeking appropriate help is not rebellion against God.
And forgiveness does not automatically mean immediate restoration of trust.
Trust can be shattered in minutes and rebuilt over a long period through truth, repentance, accountability, changed behavior, wisdom, and time.
This distinction matters because some Christians have been told that preserving the appearance of a marriage matters more than confronting evil inside it.
Scripture never calls darkness light merely because the darkness lives under a Christian roof.
But there is another mistake modern Christians make.
We sometimes read every difficult marriage as disposable.
Our culture can train us to treat covenant with the logic of consumerism.
If the product stops satisfying me, replace it.
If someone more exciting appears, upgrade.
If marriage becomes difficult, assume difficulty itself proves we chose incorrectly.
The Bible offers something far deeper.
Not endless tolerance of evil.
Not romanticized suffering.
Not pretending betrayal does not hurt.
But covenant faithfulness rooted in the character of a faithful God.
And then Jesus does something decisive.
When questioned about marriage in Matthew 19, Christ reaches past generations of human brokenness and points back to Genesis.
He quotes the creation pattern.
Male and female.
Leaving.
Holding fast.
One flesh.
In other words, Jesus does not use the later dysfunctions of Old Testament marriages as the definition of marriage.
He returns to the beginning.
That is crucial for understanding everything we have just read.
Abraham is not the standard.
Jacob is not the standard.
David is not the standard.
Solomon is certainly not the standard.
God’s design is the standard.
And ultimately, for Christians, marriage finds an even greater horizon in Christ.
Paul writes in Ephesians 5:25:
Οἱ ἄνδρες, ἀγαπᾶτε τὰς γυναῖκας
Hoi andres, agapate tas gynaikas.
“Husbands, love your wives.”
But Paul does not stop there.
He gives the terrifying measure of that love:
καθὼς καὶ ὁ Χριστὸς ἠγάπησεν τὴν ἐκκλησίαν
“As Christ loved the church.”
And what did Christ’s love look like?
A cross.
Self-giving.
Sacrifice.
Holiness.
Grace.
Truth.
Jesus did not love His people because they had performed well enough to deserve Him.
Romans tells us that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
That does not make sin irrelevant.
It makes grace astonishing.
This is where every Old Testament marriage eventually points us beyond itself.
Not because every marriage is a direct allegory of Jesus.
But because every broken human relationship exposes how desperately humanity needs redemption.
The Bible contains scandal after scandal.
Deception.
Jealousy.
Sexual sin.
Betrayal.
Manipulation.
Favoritism.
Idolatry.
Power abused.
Promises broken.
Families shattered.
And God did not hide any of it.
Why?
Because Scripture is not a public-relations campaign for human beings.
It is the story of a holy God dealing with sinful people and moving history toward redemption.
Then Jesus came.
Not as another flawed patriarch.
Not as another king corrupted by desire.
Not as another husband who failed his covenant.
Christ came as the faithful Bridegroom.
He loved His people unto death.
He carried sin to the cross.
He rose from the grave.
And now sinners who repent and believe are not merely given better relationship advice.
They are given new life.
That means there is hope for the husband who finally admits, “I have become cold.”
Hope for the wife who realizes bitterness has colonized her heart.
Hope for the couple who cannot remember how to speak without fighting.
Hope for the person who committed adultery and is finally willing to stop hiding.
Hope for the spouse devastated by betrayal who needs wisdom, safety, truth, and time.
Hope for the single Christian who has spent years believing marriage is the missing proof of God’s goodness.
Hope for the widow who still reaches toward the other side of the bed.
Hope for the divorced believer carrying shame into church every Sunday.
Hope even for the person reading this who knows that everyone thinks your marriage is fine.
But you know.
God knows.
There are things nobody else sees.
And perhaps the question is no longer, “How do I make my marriage look Christian?”
Perhaps the question is:
“What would happen if Jesus were actually allowed into the room I keep locked?”
Into the resentment.
Into the browser history.
Into the secret messages.
Into the financial deception.
Into the pride.
Into the emotional affair you insist is “just friendship.”
Into the fantasies.
Into the unforgiveness.
Into the silence.
Into the need to control.
Into the words you keep using as weapons.
Into the wounds you have refused to acknowledge.
Into the loneliness you are terrified to admit.
Marriage does not need better pretending.
It needs truth.
And sinners do not need better camouflage.
We need a Savior.
Maybe you have spent years blaming your spouse for everything.
Maybe your spouse has genuinely sinned against you.
Both things can sometimes be true: another person can be responsible for the evil they committed against you while God is simultaneously confronting something sinful inside your own heart.
Repentance is not accepting responsibility for someone else’s sin.
It is finally taking responsibility for yours.
That is one of the most liberating lessons buried inside these ancient marriages.
God works with real people.
Not Instagram marriages.
Not staged anniversary photographs.
Not couples who have learned how to smile through church.
Real people.
Abraham and Sarah had complications.
Isaac and Rebekah had dysfunction.
Jacob’s household was painfully fractured.
David created devastation.
Solomon possessed extraordinary wisdom and still wandered.
Yet through this deeply imperfect history, God continued moving His redemptive promise forward until, in the fullness of time, Jesus Christ came.
That is not permission to sin.
It is evidence that human sin cannot defeat God’s redemptive purposes.
And maybe that is exactly what somebody needs to hear tonight.
Your failure does not have to write the final sentence.
Your betrayal does not have to become your identity.
Your wounds do not have to become your god.
Your marital status does not determine your worth.
Your past does not possess authority greater than the blood of Jesus Christ.
But grace is not permission to remain unchanged.
Jesus does not merely cover our scandal so we can continue producing more of it.
He calls us to repent.
To turn.
To confess.
To forgive.
To seek wisdom.
To make restitution where appropriate.
To pursue holiness.
To tell the truth.
To put sin to death.
To love sacrificially.
To become, by the power of the Spirit, different people.
That is the difference between cheap religious sentiment and the Gospel.
The Gospel does not say, “What you did doesn’t matter.”
The Gospel says sin mattered enough that Christ went to the cross.
And grace is powerful enough that sin does not have to own you anymore.
So perhaps tonight the most spiritual thing you can do is not post another Bible verse.
Maybe it is putting the phone down and telling your spouse:
“I was wrong.”
Maybe it is confessing something you have hidden.
Maybe it is seeking pastoral counsel and qualified professional help.
Maybe it is establishing boundaries where serious harm has occurred.
Maybe it is choosing faithfulness when nobody would ever know if you compromised.
Maybe it is finally admitting that you cannot heal your marriage through willpower.
Maybe your prayer tonight is only:
“Jesus, have mercy on me.”
That prayer is not too small.
The tax collector in Jesus’ parable could barely lift his eyes toward heaven.
“God, be merciful to me, a sinner.”
And Jesus said that man went home justified.
This is Christianity.
Not impressive people proving themselves worthy of God.
Sinners coming empty-handed to Christ.
If something in this article exposed a place you have been hiding, do not perform spirituality in the comments. Be truthful. You can simply comment, “Jesus, change me.”
If your marriage is hurting and you do not know what comes next, comment, “Pray for us.”
If Christ has already restored something in your marriage that you once believed was beyond repair, tell part of that testimony in the comments—not to glorify yourselves, but to remind another wounded person that God is still at work.
And if you are single, widowed, divorced, or waiting, you are not a secondary Christian. Marriage is not the Gospel. Jesus is. Your completeness is not postponed until another human being chooses you.
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Because the greatest lesson from the marriages of the Old Testament is not that good people always build perfect families.
They did not.
It is that humanity has always been desperately capable of turning covenant into chaos when the human heart wanders from God.
Yet across generations of flawed husbands, wounded wives, complicated families, terrible decisions, shattered trust, repentance, mercy, judgment, and astonishing grace, God kept writing.
He kept moving history toward Bethlehem.
Toward Calvary.
Toward an empty tomb.
Toward Jesus.
And perhaps He is confronting your story now.
Not because every marriage will end the way we want.
Not because every broken relationship will necessarily be restored.
Not because repentance erases every earthly consequence.
But because nobody who comes to Jesus in repentance and faith has to remain the person sin made them.
The Bible never promised you a scandal-free human story.
It revealed something better:
a Savior powerful enough to redeem sinners inside one.
Your worst chapter may explain how you arrived here—but only Jesus has the authority to write who you become next.
From Scandal to Grace, Because Jesus Rewrites Everything
CAN A POLYGAMIST BECOME A CHURCH LEADER?
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
He May Be Forgiven. He May Be Transformed. He May Be Your Brother in Christ. But Does Grace Automatically Put a Man Behind the Pu... View MoreCAN A POLYGAMIST BECOME A CHURCH LEADER?
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
He May Be Forgiven. He May Be Transformed. He May Be Your Brother in Christ. But Does Grace Automatically Put a Man Behind the Pulpit?
There are questions Christians ask because they are curious.
Then there are questions that walk straight into somebody’s home, sit down at the dinner table, look at the faces of wives and children, open a Bible, and refuse to leave until somebody tells the truth.
This is one of those questions.
Can a polygamist become a church leader?
Imagine the man for a moment.
Perhaps he grew up in a culture where having multiple wives was normal. Perhaps nobody ever told him differently. Perhaps he married two or three women before he ever heard the Gospel clearly.
Then one day he hears about Jesus.
Not religion.
Not Western culture.
Not another set of rules imported from somewhere else.
Jesus.
He hears that the Son of God died for sinners. That Christ carried guilt to the cross. That the blood of Jesus cleanses those who repent and believe. That the grave could not hold Him. That sinners can be reconciled to God.
And the man believes.
He repents.
He is baptized.
His life begins changing.
He loves Scripture. He prays. He gives. He serves. People notice his spiritual hunger. Perhaps he can teach. Perhaps people respect him.
Then someone says:
“He should become an elder.”
And suddenly the room becomes quiet.
Because everybody knows what nobody wants to say.
He has more than one wife.
Now what?
If you answer too quickly, you can wound people Scripture commands you to love.
But if compassion becomes permission to rewrite Scripture, you have not loved them either.
So we have to do something increasingly rare.
We have to let the Bible speak even when the answer costs us something.
Paul wrote concerning an overseer:
“δεῖ οὖν τὸν ἐπίσκοπον ἀνεπίλημπτον εἶναι, μιᾶς γυναικὸς ἄνδρα…”
The crucial words are:
“μιᾶς γυναικὸς ἄνδρα”
mias gynaikos andra.
Literally, the expression carries the sense of a “one-woman man.”
Many English Bibles traditionally render it “the husband of one wife.” Others emphasize the idea of marital faithfulness.
And before someone dismisses this as one isolated phrase, Paul essentially repeats it while describing elders in Titus:
“μιᾶς γυναικὸς ἀνήρ”
Again:
a one-woman man.
That matters.
Paul is describing the character required of someone entrusted with oversight of Christ’s church.
He begins with being above reproach and immediately addresses the man's relationship to a woman.
Not because marriage saves him.
Not because married men are spiritually superior to unmarried believers.
Paul himself demonstrates that singleness is no spiritual defect.
The point is character.
Fidelity.
Integrity.
A life whose private relationships do not contradict the truth he publicly teaches.
And this is where the question becomes uncomfortable.
Because grace and qualification are not identical.
Read that again.
Grace and qualification are not identical.
A person may be completely forgiven by Christ and still not meet the biblical qualifications for a particular office.
The thief beside Jesus was promised paradise.
He was not promised a pastorate.
The Gospel does not say, “Clean yourself up enough and perhaps Jesus will receive you.”
The Gospel says sinners come to Christ because they desperately need the Savior they could never become for themselves.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).
That includes the monogamous man.
That includes the polygamous man.
That includes the preacher.
That includes the person sitting silently in the back row hoping nobody discovers what happened last night.
Nobody enters the kingdom because his marriage history was impressive.
We enter through Christ.
Jesus said:
“I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me” (John 14:6).
So if a polygamous man genuinely repents and trusts Jesus Christ, we must never speak as though his family history places him beyond the reach of the cross.
It does not.
Jesus saves sinners.
But salvation does not erase every distinction concerning responsibility in the church.
Paul's requirements for overseers in 1 Timothy 3 include being above reproach, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not violent, not greedy, managing one's household well, spiritually mature, and having a good reputation with outsiders.
Then comes that piercing description:
a one-woman man.
Some interpreters understand Paul's expression primarily as a prohibition of polygamy. Others understand it more broadly as demanding complete marital and sexual faithfulness rather than merely counting how many marriages appear on someone's biography. The phrase has also generated debates concerning divorce, remarriage, and widowhood.
Christians should acknowledge those interpretive discussions instead of pretending they do not exist.
But none of those discussions provides a convincing basis for making active polygamy the model Paul describes.
Whatever additional situations “one-woman man” may address, an overseer simultaneously maintaining multiple marital relationships does not naturally fit the apostolic picture of a one-woman man.
That conclusion should not produce cruelty.
It should produce trembling.
Because there is another question hiding underneath this one.
What happens to the wives?
Suppose a man already has several wives when he comes to Christ.
Do Christians simply tell him:
“Keep the first one. Abandon the others.”
That may sound tidy in a theological argument.
It can become devastating in an actual village.
There may be women who have depended upon him for years.
There may be children.
There may be financial responsibilities.
There may be legal obligations.
There may be women who had no meaningful voice in creating the situation.
Repentance must never become an excuse for a man to baptize abandonment as obedience.
Scripture condemns faithlessness and commands believers to provide for those under their care. Churches facing existing polygamous households therefore need extraordinary biblical wisdom, pastoral patience, compassion, accountability, and careful attention to the responsibilities already created.
The Gospel does not authorize a man to manufacture new victims while claiming he is correcting an old sin.
But neither does the difficulty of untangling a broken situation mean the church should redefine leadership qualifications.
This is where grace becomes breathtaking.
A man can hear:
“No, you should not presently serve as an elder.”
And simultaneously hear:
“Yes, Jesus wants you.”
Those sentences are not enemies.
One concerns salvation.
The other concerns office.
He can pray.
He can worship.
He can learn.
He can love his family.
He can testify about Christ.
He can serve according to the opportunities and responsibilities Scripture permits.
He can become increasingly holy.
He can become a faithful brother.
He can spend the rest of his life demonstrating what repentance looks like inside circumstances that cannot simply be erased.
And perhaps that testimony will preach more loudly than a title ever could.
Because Christianity was never supposed to be about collecting titles.
It is about following Jesus.
Somewhere along the way, many Christians began treating “pastor,” “elder,” “bishop,” or “leader” as though these were trophies awarded to the most enthusiastic believers.
They are not trophies.
They are stewardship.
James warns that teachers will receive stricter judgment.
Jesus repeatedly shattered human obsession with status.
The kingdom is not asking:
“How important can I become?”
The kingdom asks:
“How faithfully can I obey?”
And sometimes obedience sounds like this:
“Lord, if You never give me the position I wanted, You are still enough.”
That may be the sentence someone reading this needs tonight.
Maybe polygamy is not your story.
But something else is.
Maybe you have spent years trying to prove that because Jesus forgave you, God now owes you the platform you dreamed about.
He does not.
And this is where our pride gets exposed.
Would you still worship Jesus if nobody handed you a microphone?
Would you still serve Him if nobody printed your name on a church program?
Would you still love Him if your greatest ministry happened where nobody applauded?
Would Christ still be enough?
Because the greatest evidence of transformation is not that a man finally gets a title.
It is that Jesus becomes more precious than the title.
Look again at God's pattern for marriage.
Long before Paul wrote to Timothy, Genesis takes us back to creation.
God creates the man and the woman.
Genesis 2:24 says:
“עַל־כֵּן יַעֲזָב־אִישׁ אֶת־אָבִיו וְאֶת־אִמּוֹ וְדָבַק בְּאִשְׁתּוֹ וְהָיוּ לְבָשָׂר אֶחָד”
The final words are unforgettable:
“וְהָיוּ לְבָשָׂר אֶחָד”
vehayu levasar echad.
“And they shall become one flesh.”
Jesus Himself reaches back to this creation text when teaching about marriage in Matthew 19.
He does not appeal to humanity's later complications as the standard.
He returns to “the beginning.”
That distinction matters because the Bible records polygamy without presenting every recorded practice as God's ideal.
Scripture tells the truth about human beings.
Abraham's household knew painful rivalry.
Jacob's family knew jealousy and competition.
David's household became a landscape of devastating sexual and familial disorder.
Solomon accumulated wives until Scripture explicitly tells us that his wives turned his heart away.
The presence of polygamy in biblical narrative does not automatically constitute divine endorsement.
The Bible also records murder, deception, adultery, idolatry, betrayal, and war.
Description is not necessarily prescription.
Jesus calls us back to God's design.
And when Paul describes the shepherd who will publicly represent mature Christian character before the flock, he speaks of the one-woman man.
So can a practicing polygamist be appointed elder or overseer?
The strongest reading of the New Testament qualifications is no.
But please do not stop reading there.
Because if all you heard was “no,” you missed the Gospel.
Can a polygamist come to Jesus?
Yes.
Can Christ forgive him?
Yes.
Can Christ transform him?
Yes.
Can he become your brother in Christ?
Yes.
Can the church love him instead of treating him like a theological problem with a face?
Absolutely.
Can God use his testimony?
Yes.
Can his life become a monument to mercy?
Yes.
Because Christianity does not announce that respectable people have finally found a respectable God.
Christianity announces that the Holy One came looking for sinners.
Jesus touched lepers.
Jesus ate with tax collectors.
Jesus received people whose reputations made religious crowds uncomfortable.
Jesus confronted sin without becoming indifferent to sinners.
Then He walked toward a cross carrying a burden none of us could carry.
Ours.
The scandal is not merely that human beings have complicated marriages.
The deeper scandal is that every one of us has betrayed the God who made us.
We have lied.
Lusted.
Hated.
Hidden.
Manipulated.
Coveted.
Worshiped ourselves.
Protected secret sins while criticizing visible ones.
And still Christ came.
The sinless One stood where sinners deserved to stand.
He was crucified.
Buried.
And He rose again.
Grace does not call darkness light.
Grace enters the darkness carrying resurrection.
That is why biblical qualification must never become spiritual superiority.
The monogamous pastor has nothing to boast about at the foot of the cross.
The elder who has been faithful to one woman for forty years still needs the blood of Jesus.
The missionary needs Jesus.
The theologian needs Jesus.
The broken polygamist kneeling in repentance needs Jesus.
You need Jesus.
I need Jesus.
There is only one Hero in this story.
Christ.
Maybe this article reached you because you are wrestling with leadership.
Maybe you know a church facing exactly this situation.
Maybe your family comes from a polygamous background.
Maybe somebody has used Scripture to humiliate you.
Maybe somebody else has used grace as permission to ignore Scripture.
Neither distortion will heal us.
We need truth with tears in its eyes.
We need conviction without cruelty.
We need grace without compromise.
We need Jesus.
And perhaps the question you came here asking was, “Can a polygamist become a church leader?”
But the question following you out of this article may be much more personal:
If Jesus asks me to surrender something I desperately want, will I still call Him Lord?
Do not answer quickly.
Sit with it.
Because surrender becomes real when obedience costs something.
If this exposed something you have been hiding from God, comment, “Jesus, make me faithful.”
If your situation is complicated and you genuinely do not know what obedience should look like, comment, “Pray for me.”
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Follow Him.
And when His Word contradicts your desires, trust Him enough to surrender those too.
Because maybe the most powerful church leader is not always the person standing behind the pulpit.
Maybe sometimes it is the man sitting quietly among the congregation who wanted the title, heard the Word of God, surrendered his ambition, cared faithfully for the people already entrusted to him, and whispered through tears:
“Jesus, I wanted the position. But I want You more.”
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From Scandal to Grace, Because Jesus Rewrites Everything
WHY DID JESUS WEAR A SEAMLESS ROBE?
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
They Stripped Him, Gambled for His Clothes, and Never Realized the Man Standing Naked Before Them Was Clothing Sinners in Righteousnes... View MoreWHY DID JESUS WEAR A SEAMLESS ROBE?
By John Domino Sanchez Asis
They Stripped Him, Gambled for His Clothes, and Never Realized the Man Standing Naked Before Them Was Clothing Sinners in Righteousness
There is a detail at the cross that is so easy to read past.
A robe.
Not the crown of thorns.
Not the nails.
Not the blood running down His face.
Not even the soldiers gambling beneath a dying Savior.
Just a robe.
And yet John—the disciple standing close enough to witness the horror—stopped his account of the crucifixion to tell us something strangely specific about what Jesus was wearing.
“Now the coat was without seam, woven from the top throughout.”
John 19:23, KJV
Why?
Why would the Holy Spirit preserve a detail about the construction of Jesus’ clothing while the Son of God was being crucified?
Why tell us that His tunic had no seam?
And why did the soldiers refuse to tear it?
The answer begins with something important.
We should not force Scripture to say more than Scripture says.
The Bible never explicitly tells us, “Jesus wore a seamless tunic because it symbolized this particular doctrine.” Some interpretations surrounding the garment are ancient and beautiful. Some see priestly imagery. Some see the unity of Christ and His people. Some see providence woven into every thread.
Those connections may be worth considering.
But the clearest meaning is the meaning John himself gives us.
The seamless garment became part of the fulfillment of Scripture.
And when you see what was happening around that robe, the scene becomes devastating.
John writes:
“Then the soldiers, when they had crucified Jesus, took his garments, and made four parts, to every soldier a part; and also his coat: now the coat was without seam, woven from the top throughout.
They said therefore among themselves, Let us not rend it, but cast lots for it, whose it shall be: that the scripture might be fulfilled, which saith,
They parted my raiment among them, and for my vesture they did cast lots.”
John 19:23–24, KJV
John is pointing us backward.
About a thousand years before Roman soldiers stood beneath the cross, Psalm 22 had said:
“They part my garments among them, and cast lots upon my vesture.”
Psalm 22:18, KJV
The Hebrew begins:
יְחַלְּקוּ בְגָדַי לָהֶם
Yeḥalleqū begādai lāhem.
“They divide my garments among themselves.”
Then:
וְעַל־לְבוּשִׁי יַפִּילוּ גוֹרָל
Ve‘al-levushi yappilu goral.
“And for my clothing they cast a lot.”
The soldiers were not gathered around Jesus trying to fulfill biblical prophecy.
They were dividing the possessions of a condemned man.
That is what makes the moment so chilling.
They thought they were gambling for cloth.
John saw Scripture unfolding before his eyes.
They thought Jesus was another defeated prisoner.
He was the promised Messiah.
They thought Rome controlled what happened on that hill.
Yet centuries-old Scripture was being fulfilled while men who apparently knew nothing of that prophecy casually threw lots for His clothing.
And then John gives us the detail.
In Greek, the text says:
ἦν δὲ ὁ χιτὼν ἄραφος
ēn de ho chitōn arraphos
“Now the tunic was seamless.”
The key word is ἄραφος — arraphos.
It means unsewn, without seam.
John continues:
ἐκ τῶν ἄνωθεν ὑφαντὸς δι’ ὅλου
ek tōn anōthen hyphantos di’ holou
“woven from the top throughout.”
This was not simply several pieces of fabric stitched together in the ordinary way. John describes the garment as woven as a whole.
That mattered to the soldiers because tearing it would destroy its value.
So they said:
“Let us not rend it, but cast lots for it.”
They preserved the garment because they wanted it.
And without intending to do so, they fulfilled Scripture.
But there is something even more painful happening here.
Jesus is losing everything.
Piece by piece.
His freedom has been taken.
His body has been beaten.
His face has been struck.
His head has been crowned with thorns.
His reputation has been dragged through accusation and mockery.
His disciples have scattered.
Peter has denied Him.
The crowd has chosen Barabbas.
And now even His clothing is being taken.
There is almost nothing left for humanity to steal from Him.
And still He stays on the cross.
That is where this stops being merely an interesting Bible study.
Because the cross exposes us.
We like Christianity when Jesus improves our lives.
We like grace when it comforts us.
We like forgiveness when we need it.
We like Scripture when it tells us God loves us.
But Golgotha forces us to look at what our salvation cost.
Jesus did not come merely to make bad people behave better.
He came to save sinners.
He came for the liar who became so comfortable lying that truth started feeling threatening.
He came for the husband hiding what his wife does not know.
He came for the woman smiling in church while silently collapsing inside.
He came for the teenager deleting the browser history.
He came for the religious person who knows worship lyrics but has forgotten how to worship.
He came for the person whose prayer life disappeared months ago but whose Christian appearance remained intact.
He came for people who promised, “God, I will never do it again,” and then did it again.
He came for the ashamed.
The addicted.
The proud.
The bitter.
The hypocritical.
The sexually broken.
The spiritually exhausted.
The secretly jealous.
The self-righteous.
The angry.
The frightened.
The person reading this who knows exactly what they hope nobody ever discovers.
Jesus came for sinners.
People like us.
And this is where the clothing at the cross becomes painfully personal.
The Bible's story of sin begins with people realizing they are naked.
Adam and Eve rebel against God, and suddenly shame enters human experience.
“Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked.”
Genesis 3:7, ESV
So they cover themselves.
That has been humanity's instinct ever since.
Hide.
Cover.
Pretend.
Manage the image.
Delete the evidence.
Blame somebody else.
Call bondage “freedom.”
Call compromise “complexity.”
Call pride “confidence.”
Call bitterness “boundaries.”
Call lust “normal.”
Call unbelief “deconstruction” when sometimes what we really mean is that we want God to stop interfering with the life we have chosen.
We manufacture fig leaves.
Different century.
Same shame.
But something extraordinary happens later in Genesis.
“And the LORD God made for Adam and for his wife garments of skins and clothed them.”
Genesis 3:21, ESV
They made coverings.
God clothed them.
Do not miss the difference.
Human beings have always been trying to cover what only God can truly deal with.
Then we arrive at Calvary.
And the One who had no sin is stripped.
The innocent One bears shame.
The righteous One is humiliated publicly.
The One through whom creation came into being allows creatures to divide His clothes beneath Him.
Why?
Because something far greater than clothing is happening.
Paul writes:
“For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.”
2 Corinthians 5:21, KJV
There is the Gospel.
Not self-improvement.
Not religious cosmetics.
Not “try harder.”
Not “become respectable enough for God.”
Christ takes what belongs to guilty sinners and gives them what they could never manufacture for themselves.
Forgiveness.
Reconciliation.
Righteousness.
Life.
Grace.
He bears our condemnation.
We receive mercy.
He enters our shame.
We are welcomed into His family.
He dies.
Sinners live.
Isaiah had spoken with astonishing language:
“I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness.”
Isaiah 61:10, KJV
Notice the direction.
God clothes.
God covers.
God saves.
Christianity is not primarily the story of naked sinners sewing themselves increasingly impressive religious garments.
It is the story of God providing what sinners cannot provide.
And perhaps that is why the scene beneath the cross feels almost unbearable.
Soldiers are fighting over the clothing of Jesus while salvation is being accomplished above their heads.
Think about that.
They are close enough to touch something that belonged to Christ...
but they may have had no idea who Christ truly was.
Close to Jesus.
Close to His blood.
Close to prophecy.
Close to the greatest act of redemption in history.
And still distracted by a piece of cloth.
That possibility should terrify every comfortable Christian.
Because you can be close to Christian things without surrendering to Christ.
You can own five Bibles and never obey the words inside them.
You can sing worship songs while protecting your favorite sin.
You can post Scripture while starving spiritually.
You can know Christian vocabulary and remain a stranger to repentance.
You can defend Christianity online and neglect Jesus privately.
You can spend years around the cross while your heart is occupied with the clothes lying underneath it.
The soldiers wanted what Jesus possessed.
They did not yet understand that they needed Jesus Himself.
And maybe that is where this article found you.
You have been asking Jesus for something.
A relationship.
Money.
Healing.
Opportunity.
Vindication.
Success.
A breakthrough.
A miracle.
Peace.
And none of those requests are automatically wrong.
But there is a question beneath every other question.
If Jesus gave you none of the things you are asking for...
would Jesus Himself still be enough?
Because Christianity is not ultimately about getting something from His hand.
It is about being reconciled to God through Christ.
There is another interpretation surrounding the seamless tunic that deserves careful handling.
Some readers have connected Jesus' seamless garment with priestly clothing. Exodus describes priestly garments, and the Gospel of John certainly presents Jesus in ways that resonate with sacrifice, temple, and priestly themes. Hebrews explicitly identifies Jesus as our great High Priest.
But Scripture does not explicitly say that Jesus' seamless tunic was the high priest's garment, and we should not preach speculation as though it were revelation.
Jesus does not need an invented symbolism to make Him our High Priest.
Hebrews already tells us plainly:
“Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession.”
Hebrews 4:14, KJV
And again:
“For such an high priest became us, who is holy, harmless, undefiled, separate from sinners, and made higher than the heavens.”
Hebrews 7:26, KJV
The truth is already breathtaking without embellishment.
At Calvary, Jesus is not merely a victim trapped inside somebody else's plan.
He is the Son who willingly lays down His life.
Earlier in John's Gospel, Jesus says:
“No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself.”
John 10:18, KJV
Rome can strip His clothing.
Rome cannot steal His life.
He gives it.
That changes everything.
The cross is not Jesus accidentally losing control.
It is divine love walking deliberately into human violence to accomplish redemption.
The nails did not ultimately keep Jesus there.
Love did.
Obedience did.
The Father's saving purpose did.
And your sin was serious enough that the Son of God had to die.
But His grace is powerful enough that sinners who come to Him do not have to remain what they were.
That is the scandal.
And that is the grace.
Maybe your life has become a scandal.
Maybe nobody knows yet.
Maybe everybody knows.
Maybe your marriage collapsed.
Maybe you betrayed someone.
Maybe someone betrayed you.
Maybe addiction swallowed years you cannot recover.
Maybe you abandoned God.
Maybe church hurt hardened you.
Maybe grief hollowed you out.
Maybe you have become somebody your younger self would barely recognize.
Maybe you are reading this while carrying memories you would pay almost anything to erase.
Listen carefully.
The Gospel does not say your sin does not matter.
The Gospel says Jesus is greater.
Grace does not pretend the wound never happened.
Grace enters the wound and begins rewriting what sin tried to make final.
Peter denied Jesus.
Jesus restored Peter.
Paul persecuted Christians.
Jesus transformed Paul into a preacher of the Gospel he once tried to destroy.
The thief beside Jesus had no lifetime left to repair his reputation, build a ministry, perform religious works, or impress anybody.
He simply turned toward the crucified King and said:
“Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom.”
Luke 23:42, KJV
Jesus answered:
“To day shalt thou be with me in paradise.”
Luke 23:43, KJV
That is scandalous grace.
Not cheap grace.
Costly grace.
Grace purchased through blood.
Grace that forgives.
Grace that also transforms.
Grace that does not merely excuse the sinner but calls the sinner out of darkness.
So if you have been hiding, stop negotiating with the darkness.
Bring it to Christ.
Confess.
Repent.
Turn around.
Ask forgiveness where forgiveness needs to be asked.
Make restitution where restitution is appropriate and possible.
Cut off what continually pulls you back into sin.
Find mature believers who will pray with you and hold you accountable.
Return to Scripture.
Return to prayer.
Return to the feet of Jesus.
You do not need another fig leaf.
You need Christ.
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Just be honest.
Comment “no more hiding” if you are ready to bring what is hidden into the light of Jesus.
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Pray for them.
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And now return one last time to Golgotha.
Four soldiers.
A cross.
A dying King.
Garments divided.
A seamless tunic lying beneath Him.
Lots being cast.
Prophecy being fulfilled.
The soldiers look downward at the clothing they hope to possess.
Above them hangs the One they actually need.
And perhaps humanity has not changed very much.
We still fight over temporary things beneath the shadow of eternity.
We chase money.
Recognition.
Sex.
Status.
Politics.
Possessions.
Attention.
Success.
We gamble our years away for things that eventually belong to somebody else.
Meanwhile, Christ stands at the center of history asking what all those things will matter if we gain the world and lose our souls.
The robe survived without being torn.
Jesus' body did not escape suffering.
He was crucified.
He died.
He was buried.
But the grave did not get the final sentence.
On the third day, Jesus Christ rose.
And that means your worst chapter does not have to be your last chapter either.
Your sin can be forgiven.
Your shame does not have to own you.
Your past does not have to become your identity.
Your failure does not have authority greater than the blood of Christ.
Repentance is still possible.
Mercy is still being offered.
Grace is still astonishing.
Jesus is still saving sinners.
So do not spend your life gambling beneath a cross for things you cannot keep while ignoring the Savior you desperately need.
Look up.
The garment was valuable.
But the Man who wore it was priceless.
And long after everything this world gave you has been stripped away, there will remain only the question your soul cannot escape:
What did you do with Jesus?
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They stripped Jesus of His garment—but at the cross, He was preparing to clothe repentant sinners in a righteousness they could never weave for themselves.
From Scandal to Grace, Because Jesus Rewrites Everything
•A Prayer for People Who’ve Messed Up•
By Anthony Valente
👉 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” ... View More•A Prayer for People Who’ve Messed Up•
By Anthony Valente
👉 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”
(Romans 3:23)
Have you ever really messed up in your life? Not something unimportant or easy to correct, but in a way, it can’t be easily made right or fixed at all, something that can't be erased, redone, or even forgotten? If so, it's a horrible and devastating feeling for most individuals. It’s especially difficult for tenderhearted people who bear the weight of it and are unable to carry the guilt. Coping with mess-up fallout may cause some to feel like they can’t go on living, unable to cope with daily life, with nothing making sense or mattering anymore. For those who don’t understand, this strong reaction may seem too dramatic and over-the-top, but to those who have experienced devastating failure and sorrow, it may be greatly understated.
— How Do We Respond?
Sadly, rather than offer comfort and compassion, some Christians often dole out plenty of scolding and condemnation to those who mess up, something usually too heavy for a cast-down soul to handle along with their own tormenting emotions. For those who haven’t experienced messing up big time in their own lives, it may be hard to relate to others who are going through it. But count it a blessing; there is no firsthand accounts to relive, and while counting, also ask God to give you a compassionate heart towards those who are living through it.
Rather than looking down on others who fail, we want to remember that every human has the shared experience of being born a sinner because all of us have sinned and fallen short when it comes to God’s glory (Romans 3:23).
— Hope for the Hurting
Gratefully for those who know God, there is forgiveness because “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).
We also don’t have to stay and live in our mess-ups. As the Apostle Paul wrote, “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13). Paul understood God doesn’t want us to linger in regret or live in past failures but to trust Him and move forward with Christ Jesus.
People need to know that messing up big time in life doesn’t have to ruin their lives. True, it may take them in new and unexpected directions, but God has a way of leading people into more fulfilling, satisfying lives when they trust Him for their future.
Let’s pray.
✝️ Dear Father,
We confess that we have messed up in life and aren’t able to correct or change the consequences of our actions. We ask You to forgive us and to help us today to move forward with You. Cleanse us, Lord, and free us from pain, sorrow, and regret. Help us Lord to not dwell on our past failings but to look forward towards our future with You.
Thank you for being close to us in our brokenness (Psalm 34:18). Mend our shattered hearts, Father. We praise you for giving us beauty for ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and the garment of praise instead of the spirit of despair (Isaiah 61:3).
Lead us from this point on in our lives, and let our hearts be willing to follow You and submit to Your ways and directives in life.
Help us to be sincerely grateful to You for Your forgiveness, love, compassion, mercy, kindness, and so much more that You graciously pour out on us during our deepest, darkest hours. Thank you that even if friends and family reject and turn away from us, You promise never to leave us, turn away from us, or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5).
In Jesus’ name,
AMEN 🙏
Surely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and never sins.
(Ecclesiastes 7:20)
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
(1 John 1:8-10)
But the Scripture imprisoned everything under sin, so that the promise by faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe.
(Galatians 3:22)
And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
(1 Peter 5:10)
When they sin against You — for there is no one who does not sin — and You become angry with them and deliver them to an enemy who takes them as captives to his own land, whether far or near.
(1 Kings 8:46)
And the LORD was pleased with the aroma of the sacrifice and said to himself, “I will never again curse the ground because of the human race, even though everything they think or imagine is bent toward evil from childhood. I will never again destroy all living things.
(Genesis 8:21)
In him, we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight.
(Ephesians 1:7-8)
For it is by grace you have been saved through faith; and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God, not by works so that no one can boast.
(Ephesians 2:8-9)
As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
(Psalm 103:12)
This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”— and I am the worst of them all.
(1 Timothy 1:15)
Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?” Simon replied, “I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.” “You have judged correctly,” Jesus said. Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”
(Luke 7:41-47)
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I will continue to take care of you until you are old, until your hair becomes grey. I made you who you are, and I will supply everything that you need. I will carry you, and I will save you.
(Isaiah 46:4)
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I Am With You Always - David Delfeld
•A Prayer for When You Feel Under Pressure•
By Anthony Valente
👉 “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt we had received... View More•A Prayer for When You Feel Under Pressure•
By Anthony Valente
👉 “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead.”
(2 Corinthians 1:8b,9)
When life feels like a pressure cooker, it helps to remember that people in trouble populate the pages of the Bible. The apostle Paul surely knew many of the pressures we face today: illness, relational problems, financial crunches, busy schedules, and job stress. Yet he determined to place his hope in the God he trusted to deliver him. He even learned to praise God in difficult situations.
However, Paul also faced out-of-the-ordinary trials that would cause anyone’s stress meter to skyrocket: riots, beatings, storms at sea, a shipwreck, and jail. (How do you feel about your life after reading this list? Mine is looking a lot better.) Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians reports that he was under pressure so far beyond his ability to endure that he wondered if he would even make it.
Can you relate? Maybe you’re wondering how you’ll survive the pressure you’re feeling and get through the trial staring you in the face. Maybe you’ve come to the end of your own strength and abilities. Trials have a way of showing us we cannot rely on ourselves; they leave us with no other choice than to rely on God.
How about turning your gaze to God? Paul focused his attention on the character of God, and he began his letter to the Corinthians with words of praise: “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles” (2 Corinthians 1:3,4a).
How about entrusting yourself to God’s faithful care today? No matter what you face, ask God to help you rely on Him for all you need.
Let’s Pray.
🙏 Dear Lord, only You know the pressure I face. I’ve come to the end of my strength and abilities, and I need You to take over.
Forgive me, Father, for relying on myself and striving in my own power to take control of my circumstances. Forgive me for relying on others to see me through, when You are the true source of everything I need. Today I look to You alone.
Lord, I thank You for bringing me to this point, so I can learn to trust and rely on You. Father, I praise You for the hope I have in Jesus. You are the God of the impossible, able to do abundantly beyond all I can ask or imagine.
I praise You because You have the power to raise the dead to life. Just like You raised Jesus up from the dead, You can bring to life the hope in me that has died. I ask You to restore hope and joy to my heart.
Father, I turn away from leaning on my own understanding, and I want to acknowledge You in all my ways. I choose to trust You with all my heart. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit and empower me to keep walking forward on the path You have chosen for me.
I thank You in advance for all You will do, Lord. I will rely on You, and I praise You for Your great love and power. You are my Redeemer, my refuge, and the strength of my life. I trust and love You Lord.
In Jesus’ Name,
AMEN 🙏
“Therefore, do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”
(Matthew 6:34)
“The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.”
(Exodus 14:14)
“Stand firm, and you will win life.”
(Luke 21:19)
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God."
(Philippians 4:6)
“Trouble and distress have come upon me, but your commands give me delight.”
(Psalm 119:143)
"And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? If then you are not able to do as small a thing as that, why are you anxious about the rest?"
(Luke 12:25-26)
"So you will find favor and good success in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
(Proverbs 3:4-6)
"When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul."
(Psalm 94:19)
"For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong."
(2 Corinthians 12:10)
"Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved."
(Psalm 55:22)
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."
(1 Peter 5:6-7)
"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."
(Joshua 1:9)
Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
(Ephesians 3:20-21)
"Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all."
(2 Thessalonians 3:16)
"I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears."
(Psalm 34:4)
"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
(Psalm 41:10)
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
(James 1:2-4)
"Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me."
(Psalm 23:4)
The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.
(Psalm 34:17)
Christ suffered for our sins once for all time. He never sinned, but he died for sinners to bring you safely home to God. He suffered physical death, but he was raised to life in the Spirit.
(1 Peter 3:18)
I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.
(Ezekiel 36:26)
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Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.”
(Matthew 11:28-30)
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I Am With You Always - David Delfeld
JESUS CHRIST IS NOT YOUR JOKE.
By Jeham Ezekiel Andalio Agbagala
You laughed at His name because you thought His silence meant He was powerless.... View MoreJESUS CHRIST IS NOT YOUR JOKE.
By Jeham Ezekiel Andalio Agbagala
You laughed at His name because you thought His silence meant He was powerless.
You mocked what heaven calls holy because judgment did not come immediately.
Then life reminds you how fragile everything really is.
A place can be standing today—and devastated tomorrow.
Homes can become rubble.
Roads can be swallowed by mud.
Streets can become rivers.
Families can be separated in a moment.
The strongest buildings can collapse.
People can lose everything they thought was secure.
And suddenly, the things people boast about—
money,
comfort,
status,
possessions,
pride—
mean absolutely nothing.
But do not make the foolish claim that every tragedy is God's punishment for a particular sin.
We are not given permission to point at suffering and declare,
“They deserved it.”
Jesus Himself warned against that kind of thinking.
“Suppose ye that these Galilaeans were sinners above all the Galilaeans, because they suffered such things?”
— Luke 13:2, KJV
The point is not to look at another person's tragedy and feel superior.
The point is to look at how fragile life is—
and WAKE UP.
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“BE NOT DECEIVED; GOD IS NOT MOCKED.”
— Galatians 6:7, KJV
You can laugh at Jesus.
You can ridicule His name.
You can pretend nothing will ever happen.
But your confidence does not make you untouchable.
GOD'S PATIENCE IS NOT WEAKNESS.
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“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.”
— Proverbs 9:10, KJV
You called reverence foolishness.
You called the name of Jesus a joke.
You laughed because you thought there would always be another tomorrow.
But tragedy has a way of exposing how quickly “tomorrow” can disappear.
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“The LORD shall not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.”
— Exodus 20:7, KJV
Do not use Christ's name as entertainment.
Do not turn holy things into comedy simply because you have not yet faced consequences.
THE FACT THAT YOU ARE STILL BREATHING IS NOT PROOF THAT GOD DOES NOT CARE.
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“For our God is a consuming fire.”
— Hebrews 12:29, KJV
Storms come.
Earth shakes.
Floods rise.
Buildings fall.
Lives change in a moment.
And every tragedy should remind the living of one brutal truth:
YOU ARE NOT IN CONTROL.
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“For he cometh, for he cometh to judge the earth.”
— Psalm 96:13, KJV
There will be a day when the laughter stops.
The sarcasm stops.
The mockery stops.
The excuses stop.
Not because disaster finally proved your opinion wrong—
but because CHRIST WILL NO LONGER BE TREATED AS A JOKE.
So while you still have breath,
STOP MOCKING JESUS CHRIST.
Not because you should live terrified of every tragedy—
but because HE IS WORTHY OF HOLY FEAR AND PROFOUND HONOR.
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