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INVISIBLE PATTERNS "Invisible Patterns" is called that conscious or unconscious loyalty towards an ancestor or family member that drives us to repeat a behavior in a blind way, over which we do not have the slightest control. It doesn't matter if that person has died a long or a short time ago, if he is still alive, if we liked him or badly, if we had much or little contact with him, if we know something about his life... loyalty to that person drives us to repeat behaviors that that person carried out, or still carries out in his life if he is still alive... and even very often makes us literally repeat, parts of or his entire life as if it were a story that is perpetuated. For example, a woman was unhappy in love and her children repeat that unhappiness with recurring failures in their life as a couple. The message of loyalty is the following: if my mother was not happy, we have no right to be. It really doesn't matter what your conscious thinks about it... it's your unconscious that has control of the situation. All the control, even if you think and think the opposite. According to the latest scientific studies, our unconscious remembers EVERYTHING, absolutely EVERYTHING about the family tree until the seventh generation, knows the whole history of the family, the secrets, the truths, the lies, what has been hidden by one or more members, what everyone or almost everyone ignores, what has been hidden or forgotten, what is evident and what is not. If there were crimes, abandonments, infidelities, betrayals or serious attacks on the dignity of people, your unconscious KNOWS EVERYTHING. Therefore, it's no use lying or hiding... the truth ends up reappearing. Through family constellations, biodecoding, hypnosis, etc. it is possible to access that unconscious to reveal those mysteries of the tree that remain hidden and know your family loyalties, who you are faithful to, whose life you repeat. Do you think, for example, that your sadness, your anger or your addictions are really yours? Often they are the emotions of another family member, making their way through you and the morphic field (which unites all beings and that scientists from the Max Planck University, in Germany, have already demonstrated as a transmitting vehicle of much of what happens in a family system). These behaviors and emotions will be reproduced in us or other members of the clan until the problem is resolved. Many diseases are the result of a family pain that must be healed and brought to light. A sex addiction can be the overcompensation of the sexual repression of one of your parents or grandparents; a chronic disease is often the symptom of emotional pain not expressed or resolved somewhere in the tree. The lack of affection anesthetizes us to feel, makes it difficult for us to access love... and also perpetuates a life with little love, both expressed and received. Carrying these burdens and loyalties are not a punishment, but a privilege for our personal growth and learning, because only the one who can solve it and heal himself and heal his family tree through a process of inquiry and catharsis carries a burden. I personally believe that it is never by chance that you have something in common with someone from the family clan. The unconscious must be shaken, convinced that it is no longer necessary to continue with that loyalty. That is the reason why sometimes it is not enough to know a problem with the head, it is necessary to internalize it with the heart and body. We can be unconsciously loyal to the unhappiness of one of our parents and, recurrently, we repeat behaviors and life patterns that make us unhappy. I repeat, we don't necessarily need to get along with that family member to be loyal to him. Often, your conscious believes you are looking for their happiness, while your unconscious repeats failed couple stories or behaviors that lead you to constant and repeated unhappiness in the short or long term at work and in life. And the problem is that invisible loyalty is powerful, even being distantly aware of it, it is reproduced each time with better hiding strategies, so that you can't get rid of it. For example, if you repeat failed couple behaviors, you will deceive yourself better and more, falling in love with couples with whom over time everything will go wrong, to be loyal to the unhappiness of a couple that a grandmother lived or live your father or your mother... On the first occasions you will easily see that those couples were not suitable from almost the beginning, but every time you will deceive yourself better when choosing, convincing yourself that this time you have found the man or woman of your life. And in a few years you will end up paying for such a presumption with another more or less painful separation. In fact, you will unconsciously reject those couples with whom everything would be fine if you were with them, people who can really love and respect you, people who can bond with you without problems... but, true to family loyalty, you don't choose those... they are not suitable for repeating the pattern of recurring unhappiness to which you are anchored. By pushing them away from your side when they come into your life, you simply continue to be loyal to your unhappy ancestor, who never achieved couple stability. If he didn't manage to be happy, what right do you have to be? That's what your unconscious says, regardless of what you want or believe from your conscious. What is the solution to these family clutter and knots that we suffer?... The path of light goes through investigating your family tree, discovering whose Double you are, detecting the Invisible Loyalty that ties that tie you and to whom or who do it and how they do it, how they manifest themselves in your life. We have come to learn, to understand, to know and to investigate, to solve the mysteries of the tree. Because everything that you do not solve will pass to your direct or indirect descendants, whether you have children or not, that is not relevant. Everything you leave unresolved or pending, for which you are not responsible, will fall on the backs of others and will have consequences for you and others. A life of unconsciousness, as most people lead, will not solve much of the big traffic jams of your family tree, it will perpetuate the problems. There is only one way and think about the following... TO THIS LIFE YOU HAVE NOT COME TO STAY ASLEEP, YOU HAVE COME TO BRING THE LIGHT... and that includes looking for the light and the truth of your tree. Solve the pains and mysteries that are hidden in it. Act as if these didn't exist, look away, don't look where it hurts, it's useless. We will pay dearly for this attitude in the short or long term... and our descendants will also do it. Waking up is necessary... not only that... it's mandatory...🦋