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"We fall in love with 3 people throughout our lives. Everyone has a specific reason. Let me explain... Our first love usually happens at a young age and eventually we drift away or give up on the silliest things. When you get older and more mature you look back and think it wasn't love. But actually it was... It was love for what you knew you loved to be at that moment. You must always remember that there are different depths of love. Now our second love and this is the hard one... You hurt yourself when you fall in love with this person. It teaches us lessons that we learn from and make us stronger as individuals. This love includes a substantial amount of pain, betrayal, abuse, lying, and emotional damage. But believe it or not, this is where we grow the most. We realize what we really know about love and what we don't know about love. So now we've put up our walls because we're extremely protective of what the future might hold when it comes to relationships. And naturally we become closed, suspicious, very careful and slightly scared. But now we know exactly what we want in a partner and what we definitely don't want. Our third and last love. This comes out of nowhere. No warning. No sign. You don't go looking for this love. It really finds you. You can put up all the walls in the world, and they will come tumbling down just as quickly as you built them in the first place. You will find that you care about that person without even trying. They are nothing like your average type, but you lose yourself when you look into their eyes. You don't see any flaws. See flawless imperfections. You find yourself telling them all about yourself and what shaped you into the person you are today. You want a life with them. You want slow dances in the kitchen, you want walks on the beach under a starry night sky, you want to marry them and have beautiful children who perfectly resemble both of them. And every night when you close your eyes before you go to bed, you find yourself talking to Primal Source, thanking him for the reasons he's never dated anyone else before..." - Cody Brett