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If you want real, be prepared to do the work because relationships are full of speed bumps and different seasons. Great relationships aren’t great because they have no problems, they’re great because both people care enough about each other to make it work. Relationships are a great mirror for where your 'stuff' comes out, especially when you don't want it to. This is when opportunity for growth arises, yet so many walk away at this moment rather than look at what the mirror is reflecting back to them. We are here on this planet to teach each other, our relationships are our greatest spiritual assignment. The truth is, you will never like every single quality in someone. We are all different, in how we act, speak, think and how we respond to things. Someone won't agree with everything that you do or say either. The truth about deep love is that you and your partner need to be prepared to ride the waves together, do the work individually and as a couple, love each other and choose each other. And, choose real not perfect. You want someone who says, “I know we’re not perfect, I still choose us.” And, “I know you’re not perfect, I still choose you.” And, “I know I’m not perfect, thank you for choosing me... ~Belinda Anderson