I was married and we had 5 boys...our 2nd oldest was 17 when he was murdered at work in 2001. In 200... View MoreI was married and we had 5 boys...our 2nd oldest was 17 when he was murdered at work in 2001. In 2003 I found my Jr high sweetheart, we married and had nearly 9 wonderful years together before she succumbed to a stroke....I'm living off her beautiful quote she wrote for me just before she crossed over and trying to stay strong so that I can help others....and though my status says I'm married and not widowed...well that's because I personally don't believe in the whole "Til death do us part" I choose to know in my heart what's true and that is that our love is eternal and that she is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me