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There is no such thing as "Love at first sight". There is only "LUST" at first sight. What most people think they feel as love is actually the physical reaction to hormones which precipitates sexual attraction. Lust, like beauty, is only is deep and eventually fades with time. Real genuine love can sometimes replace lust, but only if it develops after you get a chance to relate to each other on a personal level. And only when you learn how compatible you are with each other. You need to match or come close in terms of the myriad of different beliefs, goals, ethics, principles, faith, personality, intelligence, emotional stability, libido, generosity, political acumen, honesty, commitment, morals, wisdom, compassion and whatever lifestyle values are most important to each individual. IF you do find an attractive potential mate and IF they are compatible with you on all your most important areas without much compromise, then YOU HAVE A WINNER!!! (Don't let them go.)