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AN APOLOGY IS NOT “I’m sorry BUT you didn’t do this or you did this or you bear part of the blame because of etc. or you know I wanted…or any number of things that shift all or part of the blame to the one you hurt. And yet this is the way the proud hearted narcissist “manipulate” their victims during their “so called apologies”. They simply want to sooth a situation so they can persuade others that it was really “someone else’s fault.” Try that tactic in getting right with God, it’ll go over like a lead balloon! I do not accept these manipulations that proud hearted people call apologies. A real apology is without buts or ifs or shifts, it consist of “I did you very wrong, I am very sorry, I want to make it right, please forgive me and restore my relationship with you”. And remember, at that moment your attitude and actions towards the victim changes in a notable way.