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Sometimes it's hard to let go. Baby birds sometimes don't want to leave and dad and mom has to push them out. Sometimes the baby ain't ready but wants to go by itself. Both times we have to let nature take it's course. One who stays to long , makes the parents over worked, frayed nerves and they fight each other. But it don't mean they aren't afraid for that baby when it leaves..They watch from afar. It's life changing for both. But it's for the best. Parents need to reconnect and learn to be without that baby, and that baby has to learn life without a safety net beneath it. For both it's a really big adjustment . One that both need to learn. The trick is to still help each other when needed and not push others away because of hurt feeling. Love, true love never died. And if it has died in you, you may never had it to start with. You still want to pray for them, advice, but anything else looks like an intrusion on their life. Invading their territory. Be still pray don't fuss. Make do. Keep going grow stronger in each other. You can do it. But don't let them back unless it's an emergency they couldn't help. Lots of times they get in trouble and wants to come back. But this trouble was brought on by their own mistakes not outside interference. They have to learn how to make it on their own, or they never will.I know. Because I hurt just as much as they do, but will not interfere with the teaching of life.I love my family but lessons has to be learned sometimes the hard way.Uguku ahlenohedi