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When someone is doing there best to overcome loss. Please do them a favor and keep your COME-ON NOW GET OVER IT NOW bs to yourself! Do not consider yourself helpful or making a difference by opening your nasty word hole saying GET OVER IT NOW or my pet peeve you need to be getting over this quickly your dragging this into the future I am being helpful to tell you this! NO YOUR NOT. Loss is something HIGHLY PERSONAL. No one has the right to set limits on your timing for it especially those that DO NOT KNOW YOU! Grief takes as long as it takes and anyone SPEEDING YOU ALONG is being CRUEL & THOUGHTLESS! If you have never been through loss do not assume about how long loss grief takes. It is cruel and hurtful for someone to interfere with someone elses HEALTHY grief especially when assuming they know best.