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For those of you that don't recognize this as a Horga'hn statue from the planet Risa in Star Trek : The Next Generation, let me update you. You're probably one of the ones who are seeking it! Search it yourself. You'll see where I'm going. There really isn't a "widget" to seek what you want. When you meet someone who you're attracted to, be kind. Get to know them. Be totally honest and transparent. Should feelings be apparent, tell them. Act like you're applying for the opportunity to be their lifetime partner. NEVER discuss this with those who aren't where you want to be. Misery loves company, and they don't want to lose you. YOU must be true to your own heart. Only YOU and God control your destiny. Don't listen to society. Don't listen to your friends that are wanting what you have. Listen to your own heart. Do what you and your chosen decide, in spite of others. In spite of family, "friends", or anybody else. When you're lying on your deathbed, they won't crawl in and go with you. There's only ONE opinion that REALLY counts, and that's HIS. His opinion is clearly elucidated in The Book, not amongst us mere mortals. Following your heart can bring many wonders, as well as many pitfalls. The difference lies in the transparency of both individuals and their mutual commitment to each other, not to outside influences. Stand tall, back to back forever, and you'll conquer all. Listening to those who've failed will only insure you continue to join them. The CHOICE is up to you. There's no secret potions, idols, statues, or incantations for love. It belongs to lovers. Only. Some get it, others won't. Be careful with your heart !